Is it true that you can only experience community in person, or can "community" be accomplished online? Many people have great thoughts and arguments for both sides. I think that the best way to get to know someone is in person, but we shouldn't discount real discussions that can happen online where people feel free to open up and share things that wouldn't be discussed while sitting in a room.
About a week ago, there was a gathering at The Des Moines Courthouse in opposition to same-sex marriage. The Iowa Supreme Court had legalized same-sex marriage last year without a vote from the people of Iowa who overwhelmingly oppose it. I was really surprised when Governor Culver exited the Gallery after his speech to close to 450-600 people chanting, "Let us Vote!" So, documenting the situation, I sent out a tweet (which also updates my Facebook status) about it. That one update spawned a Facebook-comment-conversation/argument that was over 70 comments long.
The conversation was between some Christian friends who oppose same-sex marriage, an atheist friend, and a homosexual friend of mine who's hoping the law will stay. For the most part, my Christian friends behaved themselves. However, with the obvious difference in opinions– things got a little heated at times.
The reality is that conversation probably wouldn't have happened if we were all sitting in a room together. If it had started, it probably wouldn't have gone as long, and some of the parties involved would have left before it was over. The great thing is that people who didn't actually enter the conversation, read along with it. One such friend said this:

Not only can online community be great for conversation, it can be great for netoworking. I've been able to get to know some really great people in the Des Moines area because of Twitter. Other church tech guys, and even authors that I admire.
So as much as you might not think online community is a valued form of making community, or establishing relationships– but it's a part of our world now, so you can ignore it, or you can leverage it.







